When we say or hear, “You know, it’s not easy.” these days, it has got a different depth altogether and probably we are not to be blamed for our indecisiveness. With more and more options coming up in our life with things and people, we as humans tend to sway and then regret sometimes. Most of us have lost that power of decision making because what we see, observe, feel and decide can come to an absolute opposite opinion just at the other moment. Isn’t it annoying?
Coming to things, we can still come across the fact that decisions can change and it won’t break the heart of something tangible but the sad part of humans being replaced at the blink of an eye is what saddens me more. We have become so vulnerable and weak, wherever we find more love, affection and listening, we glide all through the way meanwhile taking a lot of steps which are unethical, at least according to some who know what ethics mean. What has made us so fragile and broken? Is it the lack of time? The way we don’t respect relationships? The narcissism? Or the mask of pretense and pushing back people, even those who will only want good for us? What has made us so insecure? All of this and more, it just keeps my thoughts occupied all this while because, “You know, it’s not easy.”
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