13. Did You Make the Right Choice?

When we say or hear, “You know, it’s not easy.” these days, it has got a different depth altogether and probably we are not to be blamed for our indecisiveness. With more and more options coming up in our life with things and people, we as humans tend to sway and then regret sometimes. Most of us have lost that power of decision making because what we see, observe, feel and decide can come to an absolute opposite opinion just at the other moment. Isn’t it annoying?


Coming to things,ย we can still come across the fact that decisions can change and it won’t break the heart of something tangible but the sad part of humans being replaced at the blink of an eye is what saddens me more. We have become so vulnerable and weak, wherever we find more love, affection and listening, we glide all through the way meanwhile taking a lot of steps which are unethical, at least according to some who know what ethics mean. What has made us so fragile and broken? Is it the lack of time? The way we don’t respect relationships? The narcissism? Or the mask of pretense and pushing back people, even those who will only want good for us? What has made us so insecure? All of this and more, it just keeps my thoughts occupied all this while because, “You know, it’s not easy.”

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12 Comments, RSS

  1. Rohan Kachalia (@rohank01) November 14, 2016 @ 4:32 pm

    Some questions worth pondering upon.. A Good post, Ashwini.
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    • adodani November 14, 2016 @ 4:53 pm

      Thank you, Rohan. Glad you can resonate with the questions ๐Ÿ™‚

  2. Mayuri Nidigallu November 14, 2016 @ 5:45 pm

    Ah! The constant dilemma plaguing us!
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    • adodani November 14, 2016 @ 5:52 pm

      Always and forever, sigh! ๐Ÿ˜

  3. Sapna November 15, 2016 @ 4:11 pm

    Sometimes we make bad choices and in those cases correction is required.

    • adodani November 15, 2016 @ 4:17 pm

      Absolutely. Learning on the go makes life better ๐Ÿ™‚ Thanks for dropping in.

  4. Shalini R November 19, 2016 @ 12:19 am

    Oh, some thoughts to ponder on for sure! Well as you said, its not easy. To love. To learn. to let go.

    • adodani November 20, 2016 @ 5:02 pm

      It never was and that’s what makes it worth ๐Ÿ™‚

  5. Ramya Rao November 19, 2016 @ 12:37 am

    Ashwini, these are such strong questions put across that needs a lot of introspection.
    Dilemma shall continue to bother us forever probably.
    And its not easy at all. But I think you will be just fine !
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    • adodani November 20, 2016 @ 5:03 pm

      Thanks so much for the support ๐Ÿ™‚

  6. Alok Singhal November 30, 2016 @ 11:45 pm

    That’s why we are humans, the worst of the species i believe ๐Ÿ™‚

    Good that you are writing your heart out too. I have a full-time hectic job and other priorities, so keep away from blogging marathons ๐Ÿ™‚

    • adodani December 1, 2016 @ 10:10 am

      I have the same full time job and priorities too but I can’t live without writing ๐Ÿ˜‰

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