Aesthetics of Life

Probably reading the title you might be a bit amazed that how could we define the things which make appear life more appealing or the other way that what new would you get to read about Life? All the philosophies, the advice, quotes and what not we have today over the “Internet” to help our selves getting motivated and know what we should value and what not. But still in the midst of all this, this is a short try by me to get in to each one of you reading this and make the most by telling you to introspect and really know what affects your Life and what you should really value to make Life more interesting and lively. This is not a kind of advice to share but this is just another blog post which i feel if shared might help some people who could not voice their opinions or not share their heart out somewhere in this world of humans who are ready to comment on them, their choices, their preferences and make a joke out of their “Being Yourself”.
FRIENDS: When this word is exposed to our ears, we all have a book to write on this topic and through out our Life we have gone through so many  ups and downs in which they have helped us growing in to ourselves  or even by hurting making us a BETTER US. Do they matter the most? Do they make our Life more appealing? Yes is the answer, but to an extent. Our circles, our best people define us and we define them too, they know us the closest and they can make the best out of you.
FAMILY: Coming to the basics, we know we all are what we have been due to our background, we always some or the other way like and dislike many things about us given by the family. They are the creators of who we are today, the genes have replicated and we are born. Still do they matter the most? Do they make our Life more appealing? Again the answer is a big Yes but again to an extent. Why we take this just to an extent because as we start growing up we start spending our life more outside the house and we have very little time left to be spent with the family and for the family. We almost unintentionally ignore them and feel that we don’t want interference in our life, not just in the youth phase but also throughout we all need our freedom. I hope everyone will agree to this point, most probably.
RELATIONSHIP: Wow! Amazing! What a feeling? I am in Love. We think all the time about the same person, we feel Life has given us everything and suddenly we are so thankful to God that he has given you all the happiness in the life. If is it so, were you sad all the time till now? No. We just realize that we have started getting the complete attention of one single person, our need of the soul love is getting fulfilled and we are being prioritized the most in someone’s life which makes us feel Special. Do they matter the most? Do they make our Life more appealing? Third time it is the same answer, a Yes with a to an extent. They are the ones who will no matter what stand by you and at every point of life, in success, in failures, in happiness, in sadness and in every possible moment just hold your hands and make you realize, you are wanted, loved and have the capability to succeed.
YOU: Coming to the gist of the article and the message what i wanted to spread is about YOU, yes whoever is reading this article, its about YOU, your own self. Have you ever thought about how you appear to yourself? How do you measure yourself? Have you ever thought going beyond what people think of you and how they judge you? Then this is the time. Its all about YOU. Do YOU matter the most? Do YOU make your Life more appealing? The answer is a complete YES, not with an extent, not with a doubt but with an affirmation that whatever you are, whatever you were and whatever you can be is only in the hands of YOU and the more you realize this fact the more your life will be shining and appealing. The aesthetics of your Life would be at the peak and you would never regret because all of the above factors stated will be for the originality of YOU.
A quote at the last to sum up: “Old is Gold but you have a YOU in the NEW”.. Keep Smiling.. 

28 Comments, RSS

  1. Mirchi Laddoo August 18, 2012 @ 9:08 am

    You know there is a wow in you too 😉

  2. Ashi August 18, 2012 @ 9:11 am

    nice one bro.. Good flow of thoughts… You in the New

  3. ELIXIR August 18, 2012 @ 9:21 am

    First time on your blog and I am amazed.. WOW….

  4. nishi August 18, 2012 @ 9:21 am

    Thank YOU 🙂

  5. Ashwin D August 18, 2012 @ 9:27 am

    Thanks a lot rajul 🙂

  6. Ashwin D August 18, 2012 @ 9:28 am

    Thanks ashish, glad you liked it 🙂

  7. Ashwin D August 18, 2012 @ 9:30 am

    I am glad, obliged 🙂 Keep visiting

  8. Ashwin D August 18, 2012 @ 9:30 am

    Thank YOU as well nishi for the read and the way of comment 😉 happy i am..

  9. Somewhere I Belong August 18, 2012 @ 9:49 am

    Interesting take on Life. Also, superb observation YOU in New. Definitely applies to You as well!

  10. Ashwin D August 18, 2012 @ 9:50 am

    Thank you 🙂

  11. Ajay Kumar August 18, 2012 @ 9:53 am

    Voila! Great Work Ashu Bhai 🙂

  12. Ashwin D August 18, 2012 @ 10:00 am

    Thanks Azzu 🙂 God Bless

  13. Shailesh Thorat August 18, 2012 @ 10:09 am

    Kudos mate 🙂 It made me think to a newer level… Mission accomplished for a writer… amazing post… Cheers !

  14. Ashwin D August 18, 2012 @ 10:17 am

    Wow that's the best comment i have ever received, feel contended. 🙂

  15. amit kumar pandey August 18, 2012 @ 10:56 am

    awesome…!!! as usual..this time in different aspect n a different level…

  16. Ashwin D August 18, 2012 @ 11:02 am

    Thanks bhaaijaan 🙂

  17. writersrelam August 18, 2012 @ 11:05 am

    This is a Real Nice one, Loved the flow in which U wrote the entire Piece..

  18. Aditi August 18, 2012 @ 11:26 am

    YOU!
    we walk on a thin line between becoming self obsessed and self esteemed when we think about this word.

    I wonder at times how these random thoughts catch your mind. Its simply amazing to read your work ashwin.

    You definitely know how to channelise and direct your thoughts. So nicely framed and so nicely put forward. neither over nor under emphasizing any one and yet giving each their deserved due.

    I dont really read suchposts as they tend to be monotonous but I did read this one and I'm glad I read it till the last.

    Its a treat to read you always 🙂

  19. Ashwin D August 18, 2012 @ 11:38 am

    Appreciate the read Ghostie 🙂

  20. Ashwin D August 18, 2012 @ 11:39 am

    I exactly think in the same line that when its YOU we always think its about SELF but i wanted to change that perception and want people to think about themselves but in a way that neither they get over confident nor they get depressed 🙂 thanks a lot for the read Adi 🙂 Much Blessings

  21. Rutaba August 18, 2012 @ 11:52 am

    Ah incredible ;D I loved how it had a start, middle and an end to it and may I say an awesome end.

    Brightens me to read such stuff.

  22. Ashwin D August 18, 2012 @ 11:58 am

    This was your first read on my blog since we just got to know each other, thanks Rutaba 🙂 Read more on my blog and comment as well..

  23. Yasmeen August 18, 2012 @ 12:38 pm

    Very well written, I agree with all of what you said =)

    Yasmeen

  24. Ashwin D August 18, 2012 @ 12:47 pm

    Thanks Yasu 🙂

  25. Dipak Mawale August 19, 2012 @ 5:41 am

    Wow.. reading such a nice thoughts after a long time.. i mean exactlu like a picture perfect :).. keep it up dear.. god bless you

  26. Ashwin D August 19, 2012 @ 11:01 am

    Thank you Dipak miyan 🙂 God bless

  27. Pepper Blair August 22, 2012 @ 7:19 pm

    My first time over from twitter. A great read. Look forward to spending more time on your blogs.

  28. Ashwin D August 25, 2012 @ 5:37 pm

    Thank you sir 🙂

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