Probably reading the title you might be a bit amazed that how could we define the things which make appear life more appealing or the other way that what new would you get to read about Life? All the philosophies, the advice, quotes and what not we have today over the “Internet” to help our selves getting motivated and know what we should value and what not. But still in the midst of all this, this is a short try by me to get in to each one of you reading this and make the most by telling you to introspect and really know what affects your Life and what you should really value to make Life more interesting and lively. This is not a kind of advice to share but this is just another blog post which i feel if shared might help some people who could not voice their opinions or not share their heart out somewhere in this world of humans who are ready to comment on them, their choices, their preferences and make a joke out of their “Being Yourself”.
FRIENDS: When this word is exposed to our ears, we all have a book to write on this topic and through out our Life we have gone through so many ups and downs in which they have helped us growing in to ourselves or even by hurting making us a BETTER US. Do they matter the most? Do they make our Life more appealing? Yes is the answer, but to an extent. Our circles, our best people define us and we define them too, they know us the closest and they can make the best out of you.
FAMILY: Coming to the basics, we know we all are what we have been due to our background, we always some or the other way like and dislike many things about us given by the family. They are the creators of who we are today, the genes have replicated and we are born. Still do they matter the most? Do they make our Life more appealing? Again the answer is a big Yes but again to an extent. Why we take this just to an extent because as we start growing up we start spending our life more outside the house and we have very little time left to be spent with the family and for the family. We almost unintentionally ignore them and feel that we don’t want interference in our life, not just in the youth phase but also throughout we all need our freedom. I hope everyone will agree to this point, most probably.
RELATIONSHIP: Wow! Amazing! What a feeling? I am in Love. We think all the time about the same person, we feel Life has given us everything and suddenly we are so thankful to God that he has given you all the happiness in the life. If is it so, were you sad all the time till now? No. We just realize that we have started getting the complete attention of one single person, our need of the soul love is getting fulfilled and we are being prioritized the most in someone’s life which makes us feel Special. Do they matter the most? Do they make our Life more appealing? Third time it is the same answer, a Yes with a to an extent. They are the ones who will no matter what stand by you and at every point of life, in success, in failures, in happiness, in sadness and in every possible moment just hold your hands and make you realize, you are wanted, loved and have the capability to succeed.
YOU: Coming to the gist of the article and the message what i wanted to spread is about YOU, yes whoever is reading this article, its about YOU, your own self. Have you ever thought about how you appear to yourself? How do you measure yourself? Have you ever thought going beyond what people think of you and how they judge you? Then this is the time. Its all about YOU. Do YOU matter the most? Do YOU make your Life more appealing? The answer is a complete YES, not with an extent, not with a doubt but with an affirmation that whatever you are, whatever you were and whatever you can be is only in the hands of YOU and the more you realize this fact the more your life will be shining and appealing. The aesthetics of your Life would be at the peak and you would never regret because all of the above factors stated will be for the originality of YOU.
A quote at the last to sum up: “Old is Gold but you have a YOU in the NEW”.. Keep Smiling..