TEARS (A peacemaker between you and your soul)

Life. A new born also enters this world with tears. How subtle they are? Whenever we hear this word we relate it to pain, suffering, heart breaks, lost faith etc Why we have just related them to something which will pine us? Why not we accept them as a part and parcel of life? Why can’t we even control on them when we are heart felt? Some of these and many questions arise when we just think of the word “TEARS”.
If we think on a broader point of view, we have noticed that Tears not just come out when we are sad or low but also when we achieve something or are too happy. So now we understand that even tears are “Selfless”. We always from our surroundings have heard that when nothing remains with us even tears leave us but the thing is whenever we cry after long time we feel light, we feel a bit stable, we feel that some burden from our heart has been removed and the clog clears. We all have just accepted the way the world goes rather than taking time and brooding over that what makes us feel good and what people around us perceive and impact us to feel the same. The actual clog which gets layered inside us and our hearts with our daily experiences and learning in Life, are the root cause of the break down we feel once in a while and this layer gets cleared off and we become more resistant after we shed a small amount of tears. We know that no clog till cleared makes us feel good and no doubts, feelings, bad vibrations till they vent out from ourselves make us feel better, so these are tool which help you clean your heart and soul to make you live more and do more for your own self and others.
Most of us have gone through relationships, and whatever relationship you are in, might have given you some pain, some tears at some point of time. This is no wrong, these are the life time gains you are getting in your journey which makes you stronger and more determined to face may what come in your path and show them that nothing can stop you from being happy. Heart breaks are never easy to handle but then if you couldn’t handle them, how worthy you were to have one? Ask yourself this question.
A brilliant success achieved after so many efforts makes us weep like anything and on that very moment itself. We can again see that when you toil, when you work so hard, when you are so determined and you have been in so much pain, the moment you get what you desired and worked for, tears come out automatically and you forget all the pain you went through while working hard for that. Isn’t it true? If we see every negative aspect of our life from an optimist’s point of view we can find a 100 more reasons to be positive in life but before that we need to understand one thing that peer learning is important but when you benefit from it in a positive way and wherever you don’t you need to stay back and think on it to make it positive.
To sum up the lesson from this reading it will just say- “No matter how hard you try the boat of Life cannot sail without going through the stormy weather and the salty water”.


21 Comments, RSS

  1. Mirchi Laddoo June 12, 2012 @ 10:59 am

    The last line should actually read – No more tears for tears πŸ˜‰

  2. tripti June 12, 2012 @ 11:00 am

    Nice! I like the expression of this post. so good. πŸ™‚

  3. Ashwin D June 12, 2012 @ 11:03 am

    Laddoo- True πŸ™‚

    Trippy- Thanks for the read and appreciation πŸ™‚

  4. writersrelam June 12, 2012 @ 11:12 am

    I totally loved the last few lines, Made Tear the worth while reading experience,Very Well written lad..

  5. Ashwin D June 12, 2012 @ 11:14 am

    Thanks a lot Swapnil for the read and appreciation πŸ™‚ Much Love πŸ™‚

  6. sneha mehta June 12, 2012 @ 11:19 am

    Very well written. Deep and true :)…

  7. Ashwin D June 12, 2012 @ 11:20 am

    Thanks Sneha ji for the read πŸ™‚

  8. Suhel June 12, 2012 @ 11:25 am

    True, every word of it.. but still I think the last line could had been more powerful, but still its a very powerful write overall πŸ™‚

  9. Ashwin D June 12, 2012 @ 11:30 am

    Thanks suhel for the read and comment πŸ™‚

  10. SravanKumar Iyer June 12, 2012 @ 11:54 am

    A very well drafted thought… πŸ™‚ u rock bhai. πŸ™‚

  11. Ashwin D June 12, 2012 @ 12:00 pm

    Thanks Sravan bhaai for reading and commenting πŸ™‚

  12. Varsha K June 12, 2012 @ 3:46 pm

    Nice one, I like it for the idea is general bt it generally doesn't come to everyone's mind. Title n Topic is quite different. Always Love ur different approach n different thinking.

  13. Ashwin D June 12, 2012 @ 3:47 pm

    Thank you varsha ji πŸ™‚ Much love

  14. Dipak Mawale June 13, 2012 @ 5:24 am

    Hey.. awesome work bro.. i was under the impression that tears meant to be for pain but you rolled the dice in every possible corer made me believe that it meant to be joy as well πŸ™‚ .. keep it up bro.. god bless you πŸ™‚

  15. Sunny Parampil June 13, 2012 @ 6:08 pm

    Come to think of it, it's so true – we always tend to associate tears with pain but there's tears in joy too – tears of thanks, achievement, pride etc. Well written da, just another classic case of us humans when we forget the basics and try to complicate the simplest of things πŸ™‚

  16. Arpita June 27, 2012 @ 12:07 pm

    No smiles without tears πŸ™‚ lovely

  17. Ashwin D June 27, 2012 @ 12:26 pm

    Thank you Arpita πŸ™‚

  18. Saheli July 1, 2012 @ 4:31 pm

    Loved this one the most. Simple yet touching. πŸ™‚

  19. Irfan September 12, 2012 @ 3:56 pm


  20. amit kumar pandey September 12, 2012 @ 4:12 pm

    really loved it…..n the last lines…so touching..:)

  21. Phoenix February 7, 2013 @ 11:46 am

    "No matter how hard you try the boat of Life cannot sail without going through the stormy weather and the salty water".

    Like they say if you have not seen the thunder and the rain how will you appreciate the beautiful weather… nice read…

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