Life. A new born also enters this world with tears. How subtle they are? Whenever we hear this word we relate it to pain, suffering, heart breaks, lost faith etc Why we have just related them to something which will pine us? Why not we accept them as a part and parcel of life? Why can’t we even control on them when we are heart felt? Some of these and many questions arise when we just think of the word “TEARS”.
If we think on a broader point of view, we have noticed that Tears not just come out when we are sad or low but also when we achieve something or are too happy. So now we understand that even tears are “Selfless”. We always from our surroundings have heard that when nothing remains with us even tears leave us but the thing is whenever we cry after long time we feel light, we feel a bit stable, we feel that some burden from our heart has been removed and the clog clears. We all have just accepted the way the world goes rather than taking time and brooding over that what makes us feel good and what people around us perceive and impact us to feel the same. The actual clog which gets layered inside us and our hearts with our daily experiences and learning in Life, are the root cause of the break down we feel once in a while and this layer gets cleared off and we become more resistant after we shed a small amount of tears. We know that no clog till cleared makes us feel good and no doubts, feelings, bad vibrations till they vent out from ourselves make us feel better, so these are tool which help you clean your heart and soul to make you live more and do more for your own self and others.
Most of us have gone through relationships, and whatever relationship you are in, might have given you some pain, some tears at some point of time. This is no wrong, these are the life time gains you are getting in your journey which makes you stronger and more determined to face may what come in your path and show them that nothing can stop you from being happy. Heart breaks are never easy to handle but then if you couldn’t handle them, how worthy you were to have one? Ask yourself this question.
A brilliant success achieved after so many efforts makes us weep like anything and on that very moment itself. We can again see that when you toil, when you work so hard, when you are so determined and you have been in so much pain, the moment you get what you desired and worked for, tears come out automatically and you forget all the pain you went through while working hard for that. Isn’t it true? If we see every negative aspect of our life from an optimist’s point of view we can find a 100 more reasons to be positive in life but before that we need to understand one thing that peer learning is important but when you benefit from it in a positive way and wherever you don’t you need to stay back and think on it to make it positive.
To sum up the lesson from this reading it will just say- “No matter how hard you try the boat of Life cannot sail without going through the stormy weather and the salty water”.
NO MORE TEARS 😉