Loneliness- A better perspective

I certainly don’t know why i chose this topic to write upon but mostly to my knowledge i have observed and through my own experience i have come to know that this is one of those situations which most of us have to suffer some day, some time, some moment in our Life and we always try to mess it up with many things of our Life. So i am going to describe a few positive aspects on this topic which makes you not even just come out of it but also which opens your eyes to what capacity this situation has to bring out miracles in different persona’s.


Yes, you read it right. Loneliness has been one of the most awkward situations for each one of us but do we really realize that how much amount of self-realization we do when we are alone, how much we come to know about ourselves, how much we are in to getting aware about our own strengths. Yes this is the point where we find out where actually we are lacking and where actually we are performing awesomely. Also we get the time from all the other aspects of Life to concentrate more on what needs us rather than what we need. So on a broader aspect if we really see this makes us more strong and self aware so that we in every situation of our Life do not make further mistakes and make the most of all the difficult situations which come all of a sudden or in parts.


This term is a very broad aspect and is really at its best when you are alone. Why? now the answer to this question lies in to the above topic as i told that we become self aware and when one is self aware and knows more of him/her self we get in to a state of peace with our own-selves and a kind of pacified thinking helps us take good decisions which are important in our lives. Here when we talk about “Spirituality”, what does the term means? It means knowing, loving, improving, creating, innovating, let going, taking it smooth, believing in your own self and making others believe in you so that if you believe your self, others will definitely have to.


Now “Humanity” caters to being someone who is not selfish, who can control or completely overcome one’s ego, who can be humble, who has an attitude of serving, who knows that giving only gives us back rather than taking. So if we are alone, that state gives you a sense of improving if not yours then at-least others life by giving advices, by helping the needy, by being nice to each and everyone you can, by spreading love, peace and serenity. Now one can have a question how in such a negative state one can be all such suddenly? Right, this all is a process and it takes time to be a real human being. We cannot adapt to anything so suddenly and that is why HUMANITY is also a process which also results in to the situation of being lonely.


Lastly i would like to talk about the “desire-free” attitude. The state of loneliness by teaching and developing the above told qualities makes us realize with time that our birth is something which is not to be proved but to be lived, to be cherished, to be enjoyed and to make it full of Life every moment. As soon as we have this realization we come to know that even the want of million rupees is nothing to you, all the materialistic wants have no importance remained in our lives, and all what you need is love, care and emotional stability till you rejoice in to the Almighty’s lap again from where you came to this Mother Earth.

4 Comments, RSS

  1. varsha kalyani March 3, 2012 @ 3:29 pm

    yes agree wid u, solitude is gud for our betterment.

  2. Ashwin D March 5, 2012 @ 9:34 am

    Thank you miss kalyani 🙂

  3. 3.14-eater March 9, 2012 @ 8:45 am

    That's a very good post. Keep writing!!

  4. Himani September 11, 2012 @ 6:00 pm

    Loved it 🙂

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